Top Dating Ideas For Your Next Swinger Meet Up

The time has come for you to meet up with swingers you’ve encountered through a chat room or social media app. But what to do on date nights during those first encounters can be a complicated decision. You want to be able to comfortably meet in public and have the ability to talk, flirt and touch each other if invited to.

Good choices will create a welcoming experience where couples can actually get to know each other. However, being able to leave an unwanted scene is also important. With that in mind, these are some great swinging dating ideas to toss around with potential playmates.

Meet Up at a Swingers Clubs

First time swinger dates might involve meeting up for drinks, dancing, socialization and maybe even some sexy playtime. Swingers clubs are the ideal choice where like-minded people will be more open to explore the lifestyle in general. Even if your potential play partner is a no-show, there are plenty of others to keep you engage to enjoy the experience.

Go Bowling or Head to a Relaxed Billiard Hall

If those on the date enjoy competition, a game of billiards or bowling offers chances to chat, have a few drinks while getting to know each other better. The guys can take on the ladies or partners can mix things up by pairing with members of the other couple.

Meeting at a Restaurant

Getting together at a nice restaurant gives swingers plenty of quiet time for conversation. Of course, you’ll want to choose a place with a varied menu unless everyone going has a particular food passion. Don’t forget to order dessert, which can be shared at a hotel if the date equates to an agreed attraction.

Lifestyle Parties & Other Events

The lifestyle community host multiple events throughout the year. You can visit a swinger house party, hotel takeovers, take a vacation on a swinger cruise oe visit a clothing optional lifestyle resort. These events are ideal for couples with a sense of adventure and allow lifestyle couples a bit of downtime from their vanilla lifestyle.

Here are some Swinger Dating Ideas to Avoid

Sometimes certain places simply aren’t conducive for first or second dates, even for vanilla couples. Here are a few date ideas that might be fantastic, but just a bit down the road if things get more serious between swingers.

Comedy and music venues tend to either be too loud to converse or are during shows in which it would be rude to do so. It’s also advised to save visits to movies and museums that are typically far from sexy and are also quiet zones for future get-togethers.

Now you know where to go and why those first dates are so important, so get out there and find some new playmates in the swingers lifestyle!

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