Pegging – Beginners Guide To Pleasing Your Partner

According to the Swingers Dictionary, pegging is where a woman or man (but typically a man) is penetrated anally by another person wearing a strap on. Beginners to the art of pegging whether they are in the lifestyle or not will need a few tips on getting started for pleasurable results.

Let’s dive into the rear of things with this short beginners guide to pegging.

What Do You Need for Pleasurable Pegging?

The foundation of pegging is having a well-fitting harness for the pegger. These come in adjustable strap versions and those that look like underwear or briefs. The harness should fit tightly to the body for optimal control when thrusting, yet still be comfortable.

These will have a slot in the front where an O-ring can be placed to stabilize your ‘weapon of choice.’ Many harnesses come with a set of variable sizes, but for extra large dongs an expandable O-ring may be necessary.

Of course, both vanilla and swinger couples alike will need a dildo, and newbies with no anal experience may want to start out with a smaller model. As receivers get more comfortable with backside penetration, a larger dong and O-ring can be inserted into the action.

There are some that have vibrating bullets in the shaft and at the vulva region, so both receiver and giver can get off to pegging. Some dildos have special heads to stimulate the prostate for mind-blowing orgasms. Last but not least, have lots of lube on hand, and consider one with a mild numbing agent to curb pain.

Pegging Tips To Drive Your Partner Over the Edge

Swingers in the lifestyle and traditional couples want to have the best experience when pegging. Here are a few pointers to keep things pleasurable and safe.

Keep Things Clean & Sanitary

Anal play can get a bit dirty if not approached with clean parts, so an enema or a good bowel movement before the act is recommended. Dildos can harness bacteria from feces, making cleaning toys before and after each use essential. Do a good rinsing of the rear post-pegging to get out the lube and residual after doing the do.

Try Rimming As Foreplay

Rimming is when the anus is licked and is often called ‘tossing the salad.’ This sensual act can relax the receiver’s backside and set the tone for orgasmic pleasure. Your partner should already be clean, so go for the gusto and treat them to a rim job before pegging.

Pick Your Pegging Position

Choosing your anal sex position starts with a discussion about what both partners are open to. The go-to style is doggy style, but this can result in deep penetration that beginners may not be ready for. Some sex positions for pegging that might be more comfortable include spooning side by side, pegger on bottom missionary style, or receiver on top cowboy/cowgirl style.

Communication is Pivotal

Partners should be in communication about what they want beforehand and willing to share what feels good to them during the act. Keep the line of communication open, and tell the pegger when to go softer, harder, or to ease in less or more. This takes a lot of trust, so speaking up will allow for a more pleasant experience that you’ll want to repeat again and again.

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