Things to Know for a Swinger Party
The host of a swinger party will often provide details such as time, location, entertainment, rules or other important information you may need in order to attend. Since attending a swinger party is a social event, the same rules of common courtesy applies. If the invitation says that it is a couple’s party, please remember to attend with your partner, it defeats the very concept of couple and it’s actually inappropriate.
You may want to establish some ground rules with your partner before going to the party. Come up with signals and gestures that will help you communicate with each other, which is much better than saying something a loud and creating a scene. Despite it being a social gathering, it is not an excuse to get highly intoxicated. Always in moderation. Remember not everyone drinks and not everyone is attracted to anyone who drinks.
If there is a theme, you might want to dress in costumes, some parties offer discounts on the door fee for people dressed in theme. While it highly recommended but not required, it’s more fun to show up for a costumes party with no costume.
Arriving on time to a party is a cordial gesture of respect to your host so make every effort not to be late. If there is no door fee, you might want to show up with a gift for the host to show your appreciation for the invitation. A bottle of wine or some hard liquor would be appropriate.
Get to know others at the party. Talk, laugh and have a drink with them. It is a sign of being comfortable around new people and it goes a long way in making your experience a magical one. Get to know your environment. Often there a general room where all the invited guest hang-out and socialize. The other rooms are separated for couples only.
It is important to keep you partner close you. Sparking of jealously drama at a social event embarrasses you and your host. Everyone has the right to say YES or NO. Do respect others and you will be respected. Not everyone at a swinger party is an experienced swinger. In actuality, many newbies find themselves invited to swinger parties, and it is therefore important to consider that point when seeking out swinger couples. Others are voyeurs who only wants to watch and take in the scene. Nevertheless, respect everyone’s boundaries.
In the event you plan on getting lucky, remember to be safe. Use protection at all times. Carry your own supplies to avoid instances of sharing which may seem weird for some individuals. People are obviously different.
However, before engaging into anything serious, discuss your rules with the other party involved. Some couples prefer using a condom while others don`t. It is matter of preference and finding a couple that grooves with your style of swinging will be better for you and your partner.
You might find yourself bumping into someone you know while at a swinger party. Don`t be alarmed. It is perfectly all right. With the raising number of swingers, it would be odd not to find someone that you already know. Engage that person in a meaningful conversation and strike an understanding of mutual respect. Remember what happens in a swinger’s party stay in a swinger’s party. It is rude and disrespectful to discuss events of a swinger party outside of the event.
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