Swingers and Performance Anxiety

Swingers and Performance Anxiety

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Have you seen those impotence ads on the television? It is usually an older, married couple. The next commercial is usually and ad for hair restoration. You notice that most the men in the ads seem to be older? Contrary to popular belief erectile problems happen to most men, regardless of age, and often in a swinger situation. “Stage fright” or “limp dick” can be very embarrassing.

Cindy and John have gone to many swing events over the past few years. They are a good looking, in shape, educated couple in their late 20’s who are well liked. They are active and experienced swingers who like foursomes and group sex. Cindy is quite the voyeur, and enjoys watching others pleasure each other, while John likes to be the center of attraction and loves pleasing Cindy. Those who have experienced pleasurable encounters with this vivacious couple have nicknamed them sugar and spice, because they are sweet, sexy and like to spice it up.

Cindy and John frequently visited swing clubs. They are a friendly and outgoing couple, so it doesn’t take long for them to spark up a conversation with other couples. One night after a few cocktails and some tantalizing conversation, they found themselves in the playroom, ready to play. They decided to do a full swap, so John had a sexy young lady all to himself. Stripped down and ready to play John realized he wasn’t hard, and didn’t understand why. He was usually cool, Swingers and Performance Anxietycalm and collective and knew how to get in the mood at the drop of a hat. He thought maybe he was getting himself too excited, so he slowed his breathing and relaxed and soon after he felt himself stiffen and was able to have a great time.

What happened to John was a regular old bout of performance anxiety. Perhaps he got so excited that his equipment just wouldn’t work as in a normal sexual encounter, which is totally understandable. Most men will never admit this, but it does occur and it often happens to men who participate in the swinger lifestyle. Roughly 90% of all male swingers have had this happen to them at least once. Guys get excited and nervous, and may not be able to get it up. The worst thing for men is that it can happen for the first time, any time, and at the wrong time. When they really need their equipment to work, it fails to perform.

There are a number of health problems that can cause a guy not to get and keep an erection. But for the young swinger, erection problems are usually caused by high levels of anxiety and intimidation. John was ready to play, but his brain got too excited for his body. He just needed to relax, be himself, and move slowly. Men always want to perform the very best that they can during a sexual encounter, and it makes a great psychological impact when they are not able to perform sexually.

It may be hard to believe, but this is a common problem on the porn movie set. A “fluffer” is a woman who helps the male actor get an erection by performing oral stimulation, and producers always have fluffers on hand, so to speak. If this doesn’t work then they always have the little blue pill, Viagra. These are not just rumors.  Porn producers will admit the little blue pill is his best friend. Some swingers like to go the natural rout for male enhancement with products like Stamizyn and women with Libidra, a female sexual enhancer.

There are a number of health problems that can cause a guy not to get and keep an erection. But for the young swinger, erection problems are usually caused by high levels of anxiety and intimidation. John was ready to play, but his brain got too excited for his body. He just needed to relax, be himself, and move slowly. Men always want to perform the very best that they can during a sexual encounter, and it makes a great psychological impact when they are not able to perform sexually.

Swingers and Performance AnxietyIt is important to understand that this can happen with any woman. It is often uncomfortable to be in the same room with a husband if the woman is part of a couple. Even if you are a voyeur, and like watching people have sex, you may have a homophobic reaction to another man looking at them having sex or being close by. Some men may also be so homophobic that they don’t like the idea of other guys looking at them having sex or being in the same room. Regardless of the reason, it happens, and there is no need to panic. Try some more foreplay. Let her give you some oral stimulation and massaging. If nothing works, then maybe the lack of an erection is OK. Your mouth, tongue and fingers can do some amazing things to the female body and she will not be disappointed. Even if you can’t reach orgasm, you can sure make her cum and getting her all worked up may just make you hard after all.

 

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