Lifestyle Challenges – Swingers Drama

We all strive to lead a drama-free lifestyle. In fact, most lifestyle couples try their best to avoid drama when interacting with others in the lifestyle. However, sometimes the company we keep, usually our friends, can be real rubble rousers at time. These are the ones that appear to thrive off the drama by always causing trouble. Some in the lifestyle can be a bit dramatic, which affects a couple’s relationship, in most cases, they let their personal differences come to the forefront while in the company of others.

Drama has its telltale signs. 

Some of the more common lifestyle drama includes jealousy and intoxication – a clear indication that trouble may be brewing on the horizon. While sobriety ensures that couples make the right judgment calls while out in public, a few too much to drink can have dramatic consequences that takes a toll on the body. Some clubs or events has strict rules about being over intoxicated or drunk. Drunks normally spoil the mood at such events. Another sign of drama rearing its ugly head is in the form of jealousy where a guy tries to make passes at a disinterested spouse, or play partners not adhering to a couples rules and boundaries.

Lifestyle Challenges- Swingers’ DramaWhile drama may become a part of a couple’s mechanisms for addressing life-related issues, it should not be the norm and should not be used to address lifestyle issues. Ultimately, when the drama becomes a common occurrence, it adversely affects the stability of the couple’s relationship as well as the relationships with your play partners. That said, how would you address swingers’ drama when it erupts right in your face? Would you try to keep your cool and steer clear or would you try to mediate?

Getting involved by trying to calm parties involved in a dramatic meltdown can be difficult at best, and dangerous at worst. What if one of the party involved has a dangerous weapon? You want to stay out of harm’s way by maybe alerting a club/event manager or security so they can see about the issue at hand. Keep your distance, and if need be, leave the scene. Interfering could just fuel the fire, which could burn out of control. Try not to let your impulses cause you to do something you might regret by mediating.

Couples have their own subtle approaches to communication. 

The manner in which swinger couples interact tends to vary. Consequently, disagreement and strife are commonplace and can help in shaping their relationship. As such, disagreements are opportunities to learn and work out individual differences and to give both the opportunity to re evaluate their lifestyle needs. Therefore, it is advisable to take the high road by staying away from other couple’s drama and giving them time to sort out their own issues. Evidently though, we all have ‘those nights’, when things seem to fall apart, if this starts to become a regular occurrence with your play partner(s), it may be time to look for other lifestyle friends.

Lifestyle Challenges - Swingers’ Drama

Couples in the lifestyle should try and understand their communication style so that they can become more confident about themselves and their relationship as a whole. However, should you notice that swingers are detached from each other, or openly display disaffection, run for the hills! A swinger’s lifestyle has the potential to ruin, not just a night out, but a relationship. In order to avoid instances where a couple can become unhinged, try to iron out issues amicably. As the outsider in a relationship, it’s always advisable to keep a safe distance as opposed to trying to help sort out other people’s differences.

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