Having your First Threesome

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Having your first threesome can either be a big cause of excitement or a big cause of apprehension. A lot of first-timers find it hard to initiate a threesome and even more difficult to ask others questions on how to have a threesome. It becomes a bothersome issue once you let it go to your head.

For many people, having a threesome is like venturing into a world of taboos where people will judge you for the actions that you do but once you give it a thought or two, we still get judged no matter what we do. First-timers may be thinking of a few things and may even think twice before engaging in a threesome. So in order to ease those who are yet to try having a threesome, here are a few things for you tenderfeet!

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Don’t pretend to be all-knowing

You might be thinking that pretending that you’ve done threesome sessions before will make you look more confident but remember that doing it with someone familiar with threesomes will only make you look like a dunce. Admit to yourself that it IS your first time and also admit to your partners when asked. Chances are they would be more than willing to help you out should there be a blunder along the way. Besides, others find it interesting to have threesomes with first-timers. Kinky!

Clean thoroughly

A good rule to consider on how to have a threesome, as is with most rules before having sex, is to have a good shower and to clean yourself all over. Having a shower before bathing shows you are responsible and take your partners’ well-being into consideration. In the first place, not everyone is into dirty sex. Cleaning thoroughly also means less risk in acquiring excessive amounts of bacteria once you start with the threesome session. Smelling fresh will also set the mood for fun, fun, fun sex. Let your lady coordinate the threesome. These functions to reassure her one last time that you merely want to improve what’s already good; you aren’t accomplishing this because she does not gratify you. If she can pick the person, she’ll likely have any further anxieties.

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Prepare by educating yourself

Although it is neither strongly advised nor important, watching videos can make a considerable difference in your performance. Just about everybody has his own lovemaking methods and picking up techniques from videos showcasing threesome sex can help you improve your skills. It doesn’t hurt knowing your destination before getting there.
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